Like dessert, we tend to save gratitude for last—after we get “results.”
But gratitude isn’t a payoff—the reward we give back to God for bestowing on us the result we’re expecting. Rather, it’s our prayerful acknowledgment that good is always present, available, and uninterrupted. Isn’t that a sweet place to start with every prayer?
Prioritizing establishes importance and order, but human logic is far from an infallible guide to divine order. In fact, we inhibit this order when we set out a plan: 1) Beginning 2) Middle
3) End. Thinking of prayer in humanly reasoned terms, we pray first … see a result … and then give thanks. But if we follow Jesus’ example in the Bible—for instance, when he prayed to God before Lazarus was raised from the dead: “Father, I thank thee that thou hast heard me. And I knew that thou hearest me always” (John 11:41, 42)—we acknowledge that, from an entirely spiritual viewpoint, there is nothing to heal but a mistaken thought. The thought that we are somehow separated from God and need to “get” to Him, instead of knowing that we are already there—as His perfect idea and expression.
In her poem “ ‘Feed My Sheep,’ ” (Poems, p. 14), Mary Baker Eddy gives us what looks like a natural progression to gratitude: Listen … Follow … Rejoice. But if one looks deeper, these are unerring instructions we can adhere to well before we see “results.”
Shepherd, show me how to go
O’er the hillside steep,
How to gather, how to sow,—
How to feed Thy sheep;
I will listen for Thy voice,
Lest my footsteps stray;
I will follow and rejoice
All the rugged way.
Listening: Thank goodness listening to God’s voice isn’t dependent on human hearing, age, training, or any kind of medium. On the contrary, listening is a dynamic state of consciousness. It makes sense to devote more attention to listening to God than telling Him what we think He needs to attend to. I have found that the Christ—the activity of Truth, God, in action—speaks to me proportionately to my willingness to listen. But I need to calm my thought and completely silence all the obstacles that obstruct hearing God’s guidance. This “listening ear”—this capacity to listen—fills me with gratitude, helping me keep the focus on hearing—not hoping.
Gratitude is our prayerful acknowledgment that good is always present, available, and uninterrupted.
Following: God’s guidance is a reward unto itself. Simply being grateful that we can follow His voice—this spiritual intuition blesses us and, in turn, blesses others. Since God is the master of all details, His guidance carries with it everything necessary to bring to fulfillment the right ideas He has given us. Knowing and cherishing this is adhering to gratitude now.
Rejoicing: This buoyancy establishes the certainty of unfoldment. Joy is our natural state, and rejoicing is the sincerity of the thanks we give for the ongoing omnipresence of Life, Truth, and Love. On the third page of the Christian Science textbook, Science and Health with Key to The Scriptures, Mary Baker Eddy sets the stage: “Are we really grateful for the good already received? Then we shall avail ourselves of the blessings we have, and thus be fitted to receive more. Gratitude is much more than a verbal expression of thanks. Action expresses more gratitude than speech.”
I see gratitude as an attitude—my outlook on abundance, health, and happiness. The more gratitude I express, the more I see these Godlike attributes expressed all around me. “Dessert first” means I’m willing to see the underlying strength of God, good, in my life—indestructible, unrestricted, and incapable of being lost or diminished.
So doesn’t it make sense to reward ourselves now, not later? We have permission from our Father-Mother God to begin with dessert.
Tom Taffel operates a group travel company in San Francisco, California.
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