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A frat ceremony, and a simple prayer

- Practice, Practice, Practice


Toward the end of my freshman year in college, my fraternity held a large party for the brothers and their dates. One of the main features was to recognize the “Pledge of the Year.” I was pleased to know beforehand that I had been selected, but I was also aware that the ceremony included chug-a-lugging a full mug of beer.

I prayed deeply about this situation. I had never been interested in drinking, because I wanted to be in control of my own thinking and to hear God’s voice clearly. I had always leaned on divine Mind, God, to guide me in anything I did, and God had never let me down. I knew this experience could not be outside God’s loving care and guidance. I loved my experience in Christian Science Sunday School, and I was an active participant in our university’s Christian Science college organization. My fraternity brothers were very much aware of my commitment to Christian Science, and they knew that I didn’t drink, but I did not want to offend them by refusing to take full part in the ceremony.

As the night approached, I would like to say that I was completely confident that God had an answer for me, but I couldn’t imagine what that answer would be. However, I did know that I could expect good to unfold, and that I would be guided to do whatever was right.

The party itself was a great time. Then it was time for the ceremony. I stood in the midst, and my brothers made their remarks. Then to a chorus of loud cheers and applause, they handed me the mug, prompting me to take it and swig it down.

It was full of soda!

I was so grateful to my brothers for being so thoughtful—and to God for providing the perfect solution to this situation. This experience has stood me in good stead throughout my life, particularly when I am involved in social situations where alcoholic beverages are a significant presence. I actually drink a lot of soda and other beverages—I just have no interest in drinking or taking anything that dilutes my God-given clear thought.

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