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Hold on to the joy, not the grief

Overcoming my own sorrow wasn't enough.

From the August 2001 issue of The Christian Science Journal


The shade of the wooded trail was a welcome break from the heat of early August. As my eyes grew accustomed to the cool greens around me, a shaft of light caught a brilliant flash of red. A small, five-pointed maple leaf, prematurely in its autumn color, lay on the path like a dropped jewel. Its unexpected beauty riveted me. But as I picked it up to admire it, I glanced at the lush canopy of midsummer green above me. It was too soon, I thought with a measure of sadness now. Too soon to see this leaf resting in my hand instead of dancing in the breeze.

Her passing came too soon for many of us.

I wrestled with those same feelings several months later when my close friend and mentor passed on. This woman had led an active life—as a community leader and religious teacher, and as a wife, mother, and grandmother. She was much loved for her grace, affection, and generous heart. I felt privileged to have been swept into her expansive family, which included anyone who needed a maternal presence in his or her life. But as rich and full as her life had been, her passing came too soon for many of us.

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