Oh, the days—and nights—that my college classmate and I discussed points of religion! (At times, "argued" might have been a better characterization.) More than once I'd think of a Bible verse that questioned his position. More than once he thought of another that challenged my challenge.
One day we agreed to end efforts to persuade one another. We decided that each would do the best job possible of living his convictions—regularly turning to God and humbly submitting to His guidance. Of course, my friend expected that if I really followed God, I'd end up with his theological sentiments. And there was little doubt in my mind what would happen to him if he'd just draw closer to God.
Obviously, there are occasions when real and lasting blessings come from carrying on communication, even when there is disagreement. But there are other instances when it's wiser to part with those holding views—perhaps medical or theological—that strongly differ from our own. We need to be spiritually discerning enough to recognize when continued dialogue is beneficial, and when it isn't.
