IN our contacts with others, circumstances sometimes arise which seem to create strife and misunderstanding, even with those whom we consider our close friends. But it is gratifying to realize that no matter to what proportions a rift may appear to have developed, a simple and effective remedy is always available in Christian Science. In her "Miscellaneous Writings" the Discoverer and Founder of Christian Science, Mary Baker Eddy, in the article "Love Your Enemies," counsels the reader (p. 12), "If you have been badly wronged, forgive and forget." Reconciliation thus depends upon two things—forgiving and forgetting.
Christian Science maintains on Scriptural authority that man is made in the image and likeness of God, who is Love. It is therefore obvious that man exists expressly to manifest the divine characteristics of Love in lovableness, loveliness, and loving-kindness. Constant recognition of this spiritual fact and consistent metaphysical protective work to offset the danger of forgetting it would aid considerably in unfolding the fatherhood of God and the eternal brotherhood of man.
"Just what," one may ask, "does true forgiveness involve? If I am ready to proffer an apology and renew my former friendships, even though I may yet feel hurt about what has transpired, am I not thereby doing my part and proving my love for my fellow being?" The effort is commendable, but something more has yet to be done, since the speaker is still feeling hurt. Perhaps pride or self-justification is continuing to rankle, or one may believe that the first move towards a reconciliation should come from the other. As long as one is seeing other than the perfect man or acknowledging more than the one Mind to be all-powerful and ever present, he cannot experience a complete sense of freedom and happiness.
